Combine the ingredients for the dressing, stir well and set aside. The peanut butter can be a little stubborn to stir in, but it will come together.Use a reduced-sodium soy sauce if you find regular soy sauce too salty.
Asian coleslaw
Shred the pointed cabbage finely. You can use half red and half green pointed cabbage, if you like.
Coarsely grate the carrots and finely slice the spring onions.I prefer to use grated carrots, as I find them "drier" in texture, which keeps the salad from getting too wet. But do whatever suits you.
Combine the vegetables in a bowl, add the peanuts and most of the dressing. Hold a little back, and decide for yourself whether you want to add it all.
Toss the salad well, top with sesame seeds if you like, and serve straight away.